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Remember the most preetiest girl in your school and you will be engulfed with all time low self esteem... And the reason for it is everybody in the school knows her and is a friend of her. Even the most strict teachers would have obeliged her a few times isn't it?? And you might have wondered why? Her charm you would have tried to emulate but failed miserably.... that confidence is not every bodies cup of tea!!!!

But in today's world it is the problem of yesteryears. With everybody equipped with a magic wand called the smartphone everybody is a star!!!! Nobody has to be as talented except to know how to click some pictures and some minimal knowledge to Photoshop!!! Even that is not required with per loaded apps. It has helped boost a lot of dwindling confidence lately but for every service you have to equally pay a price isn't it???? And what you get back is constant anxiety to remain in public eyes!!! You might be having a lot of friends digitally but a very few real ones. And it is the only reason we sink further into self indulgence....

Self indulgence has reached to the heights in today's world .We may be connected to everyone around the world digitally but not know a person next to us is the biggest irony of today's time... I remember it started to help youngsters understand the importance of presenting to the world what they are for real but it has became now a fake self obssesion. Suddenly everything related to it is seen to be harmful. There is so much pressure in today's time that it is chocking up everything in its path....  People are even risking their lives to stay ahead in this mad race. It is gripping our society like a serious epidemic. Already destroying a few statues around the world,disturbing the scantity of religious place and even tresspassing a few security cordon's are a few of its menace. This years Cannes film festival was also could not save itself from its epidemic. I wonder what is the need of clicking your own photos when hundreds of photographers are already present to click you!!! Thank god it is banned in kumbh mela this year otherwise the scenario would have been farcical. 

I read about some celebrity following a digital detox now a days which is a good sign and I hope it will build up in the coming years until that  I wish everybody stays sane...

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  1. What's. Ur problem why r u so nosy let ppl do what they have 2 for me its. Self satisfaction

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  2. Okay. It's very rude of me as per me I am not selfie gurl

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