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Jealous Siblings..

Its the story of almost every house.
Jealousy between siblings is the most common.

Some take it positively and for some it becomes a matter of pride and ego.
Like a human body reacting differently to a same medicine , everybody has their own way and pace to deal with it.

I have myself witnessed it when parents tell to emulate the better sibling.
I don't think the intentions are wrong but sometimes we perceive it differently.

Instead of learning , a sense of jealousy grips in , between the sibling.

I think , its important even for the parents to know where to stop and act accordingly, otherwise instead of doing something constructive ,they will end up sowing the lifelong seed of jealousy and hate rate.

For the siblings , its equally important to understand that , their relationship is the most beautiful among anything else in this world.

I think , being competitive is good.
It leads to greater heights.
But to keep hate in the heart , brings only sorrow and pain!!!

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  1. Oh, I know what you mean! Sometimes it is really not easy between siblings ... although I experienced as you wrote, too, being competitive is good but to keep hate in the heart is really difficult.
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
    www.dressedwithsoul.com

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  2. Ya!! It really hurts when I see fight between siblings.
    Hate destroys all the good things in life.

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