Our family,friends,colleague & our enemy are the ones who constitute our world.
Family,friends are our support system.
Enemy is the one who drive us to be better.
And colleague can be support staff or an alarm bell ,with whome we always compete, and share a sweet and sour relationship.
We master in our own way to manage every aspect of our lives and the people who are related to us but yet sometimes we lag behind.
Every relation has different equation.
Obviously ,we understand what is expected from a person but sometimes it becomes difficult to interpret a person's thought.
Sometimes it becomes necessary to understand which is not spoken off, especially in case of a dear ones!!!!
I know manners vary from person to person but there are some traits which are almost universal and can be discussed.
Have you every notice an abrupt change in mood from normal to anger in your loved ones. It is like flipping a coin. A minute ago they might be happy and fooling around and after a few minutes they drop on like a bomb...booommm!!!
It used to make me a lot sadder earlier but now they don't!!!
Its because I studied the person over time and found out that the behaviour was due to an external source.
It can be anything ,like a phone call from a grumpy boss or can be due to parasitic friends. The reasons can be endless.
So it is safer to step back a while and not to think yourself the culprit. Let them relax and look for a good mood to put the issue across.
It completely works for me seriously!!!
If in a relationship you only share your happiness but not sorrow , then the relationship is not they strong according to me.
Remember how we fight with our siblings for eating an extra piece of cake. There is a sense of belonging in those fights.
When we grow up we don't have time to spare a few minutes over phone as well. If there is a sense of hesitation then the innocent love is no more inbetween.
Its better to sort it out without hesitation and if still there is no openness , its better to step back a little ,isn't it???
It is said ,laughing is the biggest medicine. Everybody loves a easy going personality , somebody who jokes around and makes other people laugh.
Its good to make others laught but making others a target can create havoc in their as well as your life. Don't take your loved ones for granted.
We love spending time with our loved ones as well as with people with whome we are related professionally.
Its always good to give them their space otherwise they will try to move away from us. Nobody feels comfortable when they are chocked up!!!!
We are born with some relations and some we make on our journey of life. And it is important to nurture each and every relationship in its own way.
I am not an expert in this field but these are the lessons what life has taught me .
As I believe , Life is a teacher and ever experience a lesson.
Family,friends are our support system.
Enemy is the one who drive us to be better.
And colleague can be support staff or an alarm bell ,with whome we always compete, and share a sweet and sour relationship.
We master in our own way to manage every aspect of our lives and the people who are related to us but yet sometimes we lag behind.
Every relation has different equation.
Obviously ,we understand what is expected from a person but sometimes it becomes difficult to interpret a person's thought.
Sometimes it becomes necessary to understand which is not spoken off, especially in case of a dear ones!!!!
I know manners vary from person to person but there are some traits which are almost universal and can be discussed.
Have you every notice an abrupt change in mood from normal to anger in your loved ones. It is like flipping a coin. A minute ago they might be happy and fooling around and after a few minutes they drop on like a bomb...booommm!!!
It used to make me a lot sadder earlier but now they don't!!!
Its because I studied the person over time and found out that the behaviour was due to an external source.
It can be anything ,like a phone call from a grumpy boss or can be due to parasitic friends. The reasons can be endless.
So it is safer to step back a while and not to think yourself the culprit. Let them relax and look for a good mood to put the issue across.
It completely works for me seriously!!!
If in a relationship you only share your happiness but not sorrow , then the relationship is not they strong according to me.
Remember how we fight with our siblings for eating an extra piece of cake. There is a sense of belonging in those fights.
When we grow up we don't have time to spare a few minutes over phone as well. If there is a sense of hesitation then the innocent love is no more inbetween.
Its better to sort it out without hesitation and if still there is no openness , its better to step back a little ,isn't it???
It is said ,laughing is the biggest medicine. Everybody loves a easy going personality , somebody who jokes around and makes other people laugh.
Its good to make others laught but making others a target can create havoc in their as well as your life. Don't take your loved ones for granted.
We love spending time with our loved ones as well as with people with whome we are related professionally.
Its always good to give them their space otherwise they will try to move away from us. Nobody feels comfortable when they are chocked up!!!!
We are born with some relations and some we make on our journey of life. And it is important to nurture each and every relationship in its own way.
I am not an expert in this field but these are the lessons what life has taught me .
As I believe , Life is a teacher and ever experience a lesson.
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