Have you ever came across the ever available personalities who help everyone anytime.
No matter whatever the situation may be everybody is very sure that they can pull off from a difficult situation.
Everybody has so much exception from them.
But there are times like after many years and you meet that very person and he or she is completely changed personality than earlier!!!!
You think of the good times and unable to imagine that that is the same person.
There deeds are history now and only present in our memories.
What leads to such drastic change???
It's unimaginable about the person they change into. Almost the opposite!!!
According to me , we should look through the perspectives of the person themselves who have changed .
Years of sacrifice had hardened them.
They may have sacrificed their favourite dress or the urge to buy a latest phone!!!
These might sound silly but they actually becomes bigger with every passing day.
And one day they suddenly realise that (no pun intended) they need to lead their lives freely ,just for themselves.
Which seems justified enough as well.!!!
But this makes me wonder that why it is needed to let go of a very good quality in them???
Instead of suffocating oneself in constant burden ,why not please oneselves with small perks once in a while.
If you can do for others, you can do for yourself too!!!
I am sure this shall help you from changing yourself into a complete different person.
Peace!!!
No matter whatever the situation may be everybody is very sure that they can pull off from a difficult situation.
Everybody has so much exception from them.
But there are times like after many years and you meet that very person and he or she is completely changed personality than earlier!!!!
You think of the good times and unable to imagine that that is the same person.
There deeds are history now and only present in our memories.
What leads to such drastic change???
It's unimaginable about the person they change into. Almost the opposite!!!
According to me , we should look through the perspectives of the person themselves who have changed .
Years of sacrifice had hardened them.
They may have sacrificed their favourite dress or the urge to buy a latest phone!!!
These might sound silly but they actually becomes bigger with every passing day.
And one day they suddenly realise that (no pun intended) they need to lead their lives freely ,just for themselves.
Which seems justified enough as well.!!!
But this makes me wonder that why it is needed to let go of a very good quality in them???
Instead of suffocating oneself in constant burden ,why not please oneselves with small perks once in a while.
If you can do for others, you can do for yourself too!!!
I am sure this shall help you from changing yourself into a complete different person.
Peace!!!
It is really interesting how people can change in that way! Corresponding your description they changed really completely - and I agree such a total change can be really a pity and is for sure not generally necessary ...
ReplyDeletexx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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Such things do happen!!!!
ReplyDeleteIt's great that you agree on the matter that it's not worth changing a very good quality.