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Are you going to be a Guest????

Family , friends ,collegues and the people who are a part of your society, constitute our world.
Of course ,I am talking about the real time.
But if people from the virtual world are also a part of your real world , they are included too!!

It is very important to be socially engaging, to maintain a good social life.
Festival, social gatherings , meetings are some of the getaways to accomplish those objectives.

Whether they are new acquaintance or a older one, inviting them to your place is a top priority for sure.

Entertaining guest is something , which is one of the most difficult jobs in the world.

Taking care of each and every members likes and dislikes and making them comfortable and at home , demands a lot of precision.

Its not always goody goody , to be frank!!!

Schedule goes heywire.
Children take advantage of the situation.
They don't listen to elders at all.

Lot of work remains pending!!!

I know , its a lot of complaining.
What I want to share through this post is , not about the guest who visit us but about us, when we ourselves are guest.

Its not possible to teach the guest but what is to be taught is, to teach ourselves!!!

There are a lot of simple ways to make our stay a burdensome free!!!


Like, being all geared up with all the essentials like soap, shampoo, an extra pair of floaters etc.

They would have made every single arrangement but its good to carry our simple needs than complaining!!!

If there are children in the house, give them a peaceful environment to study.

Stick to their schedule , so that they don't feel uncomfortable .

I like to help them in kitchen or may be in their children's studies, if they like!!!
I like to do this the most because to share their work is a good idea and this make people lot freearer!!!

Last but not the least , make your stay short and welcoming. Uncessary extentions should be avoided.

Oh yes!!! How can I forget ? Be inviting in return!!!

Set an example. So that others make an effort to follow you!!!

Enjoy!!!


Comments

  1. I'm convinced you are a very good and politeful guest! Honestly I'm very hesitant to invite people to stay overnight in our house - exceptionally our own grown up childern, they are always welcome - as I know it can be challenging for both sides.
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
    www.dressedwithsoul.com

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  2. Thanks for the kind words!!!
    I understand the situation in your case but as you said ones own children are always welcome in their parents house because there is no formality in between!!!
    Have a lovely day ahead!!!

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  3. Thanks for understanding!
    Have a lovely week ahead!

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  4. You are most welcome!!!
    Have a great week ahead as well!!!

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