World is all about communication.
Its so easy now to converse with a person sitting in a far of place.
In today's world , we one way or the other converse with our thumb!!!
Real time conversation has taken a back seat for sure.
We may not realize but conversing in real time, is equally important.
Like joining a new college, office or just making new friends in your new neighbourhood.
Its great if you have the skills of making a fluid conversation but there are some for whom conversing is not that easy.
Some may be simply shy and for some it might be their nature.
I remember, it was the annual function after taking part in the activities, I could converse with everyone.
I realized that , it may be considered politeness but as we grow old its perceived to be your arrogance.
Well,I am perfectly OK to be called arrogant because I myself know that I am not. Its isn't easy to make happy everyone!!!
But what is really important is the fact that, it becomes necessary to know the art of conversing, at certain period of time.
So , the next question is how to break away from shyness???
According to me, the main reason a person feels shy is because of ignorance or the fear to fail in front of others.
If you are worried of failure then stop worry about it because not everybody is an encyclopedia!!
Failure is part and parcel of life. We should always learn from our failure instead of fearing it.
Making oneself in sync with the news around you, helps you a lot. You can be a star in every conversation.
Try to be good in the field you love the most.
Its better to be master of one, isn't it.
Even if the topic is not of your interest, still try to be a part of the conversation by just being a good listener.
I hope , my experiences helps.
Happy conversing!!!
Its so easy now to converse with a person sitting in a far of place.
In today's world , we one way or the other converse with our thumb!!!
Real time conversation has taken a back seat for sure.
We may not realize but conversing in real time, is equally important.
Like joining a new college, office or just making new friends in your new neighbourhood.
Its great if you have the skills of making a fluid conversation but there are some for whom conversing is not that easy.
Some may be simply shy and for some it might be their nature.
I remember, it was the annual function after taking part in the activities, I could converse with everyone.
I realized that , it may be considered politeness but as we grow old its perceived to be your arrogance.
Well,I am perfectly OK to be called arrogant because I myself know that I am not. Its isn't easy to make happy everyone!!!
But what is really important is the fact that, it becomes necessary to know the art of conversing, at certain period of time.
So , the next question is how to break away from shyness???
According to me, the main reason a person feels shy is because of ignorance or the fear to fail in front of others.
If you are worried of failure then stop worry about it because not everybody is an encyclopedia!!
Failure is part and parcel of life. We should always learn from our failure instead of fearing it.
Making oneself in sync with the news around you, helps you a lot. You can be a star in every conversation.
Try to be good in the field you love the most.
Its better to be master of one, isn't it.
Even if the topic is not of your interest, still try to be a part of the conversation by just being a good listener.
I hope , my experiences helps.
Happy conversing!!!
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